Edit: (probably should list this first): but verify what you actually have first...may just be faulty
Like Larry said
FLOW SWITCH ...you need one that fires at a lower flow rate. The 8 flow (4 #2 jets) wand you are using only generates 1GPM @ 300psi ...or 2.3GPM @ 500psi w/ 100ft of hose.
This is below the flow switch "engagement" of most NON-ENGINEERED carpet cleaning systems incorporating diesel burners ........which are normally seen in the pressure washing industry and fire @ 2.5-3gpm.
Your tile tools with larger jets AND much higher PSI are more likely to cause the heater to fire.
YES adding larger jets could get your heater to fire due to an increase in flow/gpm. It is very likely that doing so will just give you a bunch of hot water that you can't recover.........and is not going to provide heat to your lower flow tools like upholstery
Find a
FLOW SWITCH that fires at a lower flow........
If you need help post pics/specs of your heater/burner here.
OR call Duane Oxley....
http://acceleratedtruckmounts.com/index.php?route=information/contact who I am sure would be glad to give you some advice..........while I understand the "overall" he is likely to be able to provide you with system/burner specific advice
or contact masterblend:
http://www.masterblend.net/component/contact/12
I believe they use a lower flow switch...this one last I heard:
http://www.***************/northstar-pressure-washer-reed-flow-switch-784621-p-11390.html (*******may not be appropriate for your system)
but verify what you actually have first...may just be faulty