take a shower....now you're just being unreasonable!Dressed nice, take a shower, on time, don't say anything stupid and 3/4 of the job is already done.
Just drive around any subdivision and see how much time/money people spend on the outside of their home, lawn, decorations etc. Appearances are very important to most people.
So what you are saying is cut off jean shorts , flannel shirt and combat boots is not what you want to wear?