I know as soon as I post this, someone will know something better, but here goes.
Foster are #1
Hansen are #2
Parker like most parker stuff is now made in China, as are "most" of the QDs avail. at your "local" supplier because they tend to BUY them from the SAME vendors, carpet cleaners want cheap...so suppliers meet the need.
Now on the blow outs:
You have nipple (poppet) failure and o-ring failure, two totally different animals.
O-rings are easily replaced and any reputable supplier will have QD o-rings for a song, pick up a small baggie with your next purchase, and start using some o-ring lube as a part of your normal maint.
Most QDs (female and male, socket and plug) fail at the Poppet, the heat and pressure cause the seal to "pucker" and protrude, and they no longer check flow when disconnected.
It's true SS males resist drops and nics and mushrooming from the SS balls in the female, they are a smart buy.
Hydro-Force is the exclusive provider of the plastic insulated Safe-Connects, you aren't liklely to ever find them cheaper, and they use Parkers in them last I checked.