Why you aren't rich....

Jeremy

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10 (More) Reasons You're Not Rich
by Jeffrey Strain
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
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Many people assume they aren't rich because they don't earn enough money. If I only earned a little more, I could save and invest better, they say.

The problem with that theory is they were probably making exactly the same argument before their last several raises. Becoming a millionaire has less to do with how much you make, it's how you treat money in your daily life.

The list of reasons you may not be rich doesn't end at 10. Caring what your neighbors think, not being patient, having bad habits, not having goals, not being prepared, trying to make a quick buck, relying on others to handle your money, investing in things you don't understand, being financially afraid and ignoring your finances.


Here are 10 more possible reasons you aren't rich:

You care what your car looks like: A car is a means of transportation to get from one place to another, but many people don't view it that way. Instead, they consider it a reflection of themselves and spend money every two years or so to impress others instead of driving the car for its entire useful life and investing the money saved.

You feel entitlement: If you believe you deserve to live a certain lifestyle, have certain things and spend a certain amount before you have earned to live that way, you will have to borrow money. That large chunk of debt will keep you from building wealth.

You lack diversification: There is a reason one of the oldest pieces of financial advice is to not keep all your eggs in a single basket. Having a diversified investment portfolio makes it much less likely that wealth will suddenly disappear.


You started too late
: The magic of compound interest works best over long periods of time. If you find you're always saying there will be time to save and invest in a couple more years, you'll wake up one day to find retirement is just around the corner and there is still nothing in your retirement account.


You don't do what you enjoy: While your job doesn't necessarily need to be your dream job, you need to enjoy it. If you choose a job you don't like just for the money, you'll likely spend all that extra cash trying to relieve the stress of doing work you hate.


You don't like to learn: You may have assumed that once you graduated from college, there was no need to study or learn. That attitude might be enough to get you your first job or keep you employed, but it will never make you rich. A willingness to learn to improve your career and finances are essential if you want to eventually become wealthy.

You buy things you don't use: Take a look around your house, in the closets, basement, attic and garage and see if there are a lot of things you haven't used in the past year. If there are, chances are that all those things you purchased were wasted money that could have been used to increase your net worth.

You don't understand value: You buy things for any number of reasons besides the value that the purchase brings to you. This is not limited to those who feel the need to buy the most expensive items, but can also apply to those who always purchase the cheapest goods. Rarely are either the best value, and it's only when you learn to purchase good value that you have money left over to invest for your future.

Your house is too big: When you buy a house that is bigger than you can afford or need, you end up spending extra money on longer debt payments, increased taxes, higher upkeep and more things to fill it. Some people will try to argue that the increased value of the house makes it a good investment, but the truth is that unless you are willing to downgrade your living standards, which most people are not, it will never be a liquid asset or money that you can ever use and enjoy.


You fail to take advantage of opportunities: There has probably been more than one occasion where you heard about someone who has made it big and thought to yourself, "I could have thought of that." There are plenty of opportunities if you have the will and determination to keep your eyes open.
 

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12: You bought the wrong bananas....


Where can I get me some of those fancy money bananas?
 

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Nice points above. Thanks to Jeremy for bringing the subject up. I would add a 13th point:

13. Failure to recognize that you may already be "rich". (And no, this is not one of those touchy-feely love your family posts.) But what exactly IS a rich person. Can you base it on net worth, income or lifestyle? Or instead, could it be based on GRATITUDE, what I call an "abundance mentality", feeling blessed with everything you have, including your financial assets, instead of this insane craving/envy for more, more, more?

Now is money an important part of this mix? Absolutely. It is tough to be grateful about any thing as they repossess your car. However, the average American has so much more both net worth wise and in their lifestyle than almost any where else in the world and than any other time in history. And yet we aren't grateful because we are always looking at others who supposedly have "more".

In my late teens I read a long out of print book that had a profound impact on me called "Living Poor With Style". It was a sort of counter-culture volume that would be viewed as hopelessly out-dated today. But the central theme was buying (and living) smarter. In other words, finding contentment with what you have and achieving an "abundance mentality". Maybe you are "rich" and don't recognize it ...

Steve "Island Boy" Toburen

PS In rereading the above I'm not sure it totally makes sense. But I'm still going to put it up as representing a contrary view. I'm going to blame my 'failure of communication" all on having to listen to Big Billy go on about marketing here in our SFS seminar. He is very distracting ...
 

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I think you have to diversify your life as well.
Work hard at what you do but always be on the look out for something better.

And the less spending thing works as well.
 
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Because I am Poor; and liberals are feeding the world with my tax money.
 

Brian R

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Money makes happiness easier to obtain.
The lack of money can make you sad..nobody ever brings that up.

You will be happy or sad no matter what but the consistancy is what is effected by your lifestyle

I love it when people say "money isn't everything".
If you had to kill your food or grow it and couldn't do either....getting that food would pretty much be everything wouldn't it?

Well money is just a way of getting your food...therefore...money IS everything..or at least the gateway to everything.
 

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