My BNI group rocks, we have 34 members, parties at least once a quarter. I think I made my money back in 2 weeks, getting at least 3-4 referrals a week from the group. It was kinda scary at first having to do the 1 minute thingy, and the 10 minute thing was really scary, but I guess I got used to it and it isn't too bad now. Their motto "givers gain" really does mean a lot to my group. One of the best moves I've made. Go for it!