Plus you guys are probably mature adults.
We have "Tetuan" (mothers maiden name) blood in us, make you stubborn and want to argue just because you're awake and breathing.
Some of my siblings have more than others. It's a curse of stubbornness and hot tempers I think I'm the worst of the group.
The Chavez family (my father's side) are calm, caring, creative, artistic people........I got none of that.
I got all Tetuan, I can reason with you for a while but if it continues I will eventually boil over and go neanderthal and
punch you in the face.
I've learned to stay out of bars, pro games where fans get drunk, anywhere that confrontation is likely.
My mom said my uncle used to go hang out on the weekends in rough areas of town just waiting for someone to say something so he could fight them.
At least I'm not that crazy!
Dan is much much more calm, well unless he's fighting with my sister then his foolishness rears it's ugly head.