"Mike you can't just stretch where it hurts, that may actually cause your muscles to flame up."
Depends upon the "kind of hurt". If it's a sharp pain. You're right. If it's just dull and tight, it's good to stretch. Don't stretch if you feel a sharp pain in the area.
"Try stetching more where it doesn't hurt"
Here's an interesting thing to do:
1.) Get a tennis ball.
2.) Stand barefoot and reach down and touch your toes (or try to, if you can't go all the way down). Make a note of how far you can go.
3.) Stand up and put the tennis ball under one of your feet, then roll it around as you put moderate pressure on it. Be sure to roll the ball under the complete sole of your foot thoroughly.
4.) Repeat with the other foot.
5.) Now try to touch your toes again.
You'll find that you can go down considerably farther after doing the above. The reason is that you're loosening the fascia under your feet. (Fascia is like a sheath that covers your muscles. And it's much stronger than muscle tissue. If your fascia is tight in an area, you're tight there.) And even though it's on your foot, all fascia is connected. So loosening your fascia there, affects other places.
-----> One thing I used to do that helped a lot was go to the gym and do the cable- row exercise, sitting on the floor. I'd put maybe 50 lb. on it and let it pull me down. And I'd just "hang" there, letting the stretch focus on my lower back. (I'd almost have my chin on the floor.) After relaxing in that position for about 30 seconds, I'd repeat it 3 or 4 times. It was instantaneous relief.... "miraculous".