Jim Pemberton
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- Jim Pemberton
I see it as a character asset
Then you might appreciate this story (its long, but you should appreciate the ending):
For years, one of the major fiber producers had a representative who attended all the major functions. No matter how publicly I took his organization apart, he would always come to me, shake my hand while holding his other one over it too, smile and tell me how much he and his company appreciated everything my father and I did for the industry. It was always the exact same line, to the point I could say every word in advance.
I resented it each time he did it, because I knew he couldn't possibly mean it.
After some years, he left that position and became a consultant for a flooring group of some sort. The first time I saw him after that, he looked me with all the hostility and contempt I richly deserved for all those years of criticism from me, and wouldn't speak to me at all.
At that point, I found a new respect for him that I never had before!