That's where I'm coming from Steve. I have had previous employers that have done that to me. I was upper management, and salaried, and worked a LOT of "free" overtime. But when holiday's came on the weekend, I wouldn't get the day off. My time was more important to me than any amount of money.
Now that I am an employer, I don't want to be the type of employer that used to employ me. That's a big part of why we went into this stress of business ownership. We have both worked for previous employers where we cared about their company more than they did. It was time we cared about our own company.
I have a delima at times, that I know exactly what type of employer I DON'T want to be, but I'm still working on the type of employer I DO want to be.
One thing I know for sure, that our long-term, happy, content, appreciated employees know that they are one of the biggest factors in all of us being successful.