Huge mistake? Dating clients...

Becker

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If you must know it had to do with being on the boards so much.

Don't worry Mike with the Mikey's Board Banner hanging over the bed, you will be there soon also.
 
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If your wife is that pissed over you reading a Carpet Cleaning internet forum, then there are already bigger problems that you are not aware of .
 

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I would sit her down and see what changes you both need to make this work...

Do not be a bb addict for one,it is not worth it ...

Jusy scan what you need to know for your business...

Tell her both of you have been disease free,since you were married...

An if you do not htink that seriously about stds and hiv,well...

It is not just addicts that get it ...

Make it work for your son...

I think you can pull it off,if you give it as much effort as this bb...

Just my 2 cents,but you are a friend an it is my opinion.

I would say it to you here or there if I could...

Very best of luck...

An as for dating clients,I did more then just date them...

I smoked them silly,then got married...

But over 25 years here,an still tickin...lol, but this Timex has no battery,

Thats cuz she keeps me wound up...
 

Becker

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LOL.. All good, it has been about a year now.

Thanks for all the advice.. As for the client.. She is coming for dinner next week.
 
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Well, you know what the bible says about divor...Oh, Nevermind Wrong board!
 

Dolly Llama

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damn shame, Beck
Sorry to hear.
I know it's no picnic for you and the EX, but my heart bleeds most for the kid

As far as dating a custy, I don't see "too many" probs with it.
UNLESS....you decide to date others from the same circle of friends.

AND..there's zero chance of reconciliation between you and Stacy


..L.T.A.
 

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I am so sorry to read this. Please keep Jr. in mind no matter what you do.

If my wife left me and I couldn't see my kids full time.....................I would loose it.

best of luck
 

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I'll give an update about this time tomorrow with limited details.

I'm making a glazed Salmon, (king caught myself) Salad and Baby reds.

A Bottle or White, or Red. (or both) Her choice.

Ipod humming away on the stereo.

Hope she helps me clean the kitchen before she goes!
 

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White wine is my recomendation. Chill it a bit.

And remember, only a nimrod chills red-wine. If she picks red, leave it at room temp and open it up hours before she comes to let it breath.

I know most people know this, but I worked at a five star restaurant (Rated #8 on Ten Best Restaurants of the continental united states. They got that rating in the late 80s... Don't know how it would rate now... That's beside the point....)

Anyway, I worked at a really fancy restaurant, and some Dick-Cheeze calls up, talking really loud to impress his date, insists that I call him Doctor, makes sure I know he's calling me from a limo, and demands our finest bottle of red wine be chilling at our finest table for him when he arrives. What a waste. $1000.00 vintage ice cold... He couldn't even taste the money. I would have rather made tea out of ten crisp hundred dollar bills than drink a thousand dollar bottle of wine I couldn't taste.
 

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Becker said:
I'm making a glazed Salmon, (king caught myself) Salad and Baby reds.

A Bottle or White, or Red. (or both) Her choice.

Ipod humming away on the stereo.

LOL...that's as bad as a woman going out wearing a water bra and a girdle. Unless you cook (and romance) like that all the time it's just false advertising.

BTW - MEN are the ones impressed by food. Women like guys that are funny and they feel comfortable around, guys who listen without their eyes glazing over or feeling the need to give advice.

The guy who can make her laugh will get (and keep) way more girls than the Adonis or the rich guy.

In all fairness to her you might want to sit her down and pre-qualify with her that you have a BB addiction and get her to sign waivers...lol.

Good luck and take care,
Lisa
 

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you better post pics so we can drool or rip on you, which ever applies!!!

PS maybe she has a Howdy Doody addiction and she's just using Beck to fulfill a fantasy!!!
 

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ya see if you don't do what I said to do in the above post, years later when you are married again you will lie awake at night wishing and fantasying that you had.
 

Trevor Truitt

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Don't clean the kitchen while she is there. You'll look even more neurotic than you already are. :wink:

Clear the table and that's it. Let her help if she wants.
 
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Interesting post.
I've been with my wife 24 years,married 22 years(lived in blissful sin,2 years). Hard for me to relate.

But, I do have an opinion....
If divorce is unavoidable,LIVE IT UP!
I would go out with her,just to get at all her friends,then their friends,etc.

You're 34 man,BLOW IT OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Nun of us Bastards business?????

Becker,

If the reasons of getting devorsed is none of us bastards business, then you should of never brought this up on a public forum in the first place.


Most will agree
 

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Re: Nun of us Bastards business?????

ServiceMasterRalph said:
Becker,

If the reasons of getting devorsed is none of us bastards business, then you should of never brought this up on a public forum in the first place.


Most will agree

yeah becker do give us the details, most of us have had ordeals with former spouses anyways, at least I have, I don't think people around here are looking to judge anyone in this matter
 

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This was the season finally.

Got to keep ya all around a bit and build up the next season.

BTW, dinner was awesome!
 
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Yeah dinner was great, I bet it was a free one, he cooked the poluted crab he caught in the sound..lol
 

Becker

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detect some bitterness in your posts dude.

is it just a NY tude?

yeah no crab, she is not yet worthy of my valuable crab.

LOL
 

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