I can be a bit of a road rager sometimes. Last year a woman in a station wagon cuts me off and I blare the horn and flash my lights. (i've gotten good at that) and at the next traffic light, we are side by side and her windo rolls down. I'm thinking 'oh lord, here it comes, but she leans across and says "did I cut off? I'm terribly sorry, I just wasn't paying attention and didn't see you". What could i say, I called her a pa and she called me a son, oh yeah that's a different story, but the upshot of it is, that because she apologized and I recognized that she just made a mistake, I came away with a different point of view. (there I go again) everybody makes driving mistakes, they are not out to get you, it just seems that way sometimes